Having smart and well behave children will be the expectation of every parent. They want to have children who are success academically, socially, and emotionally. Although it looks difficult, proper parenting method will make the dream comes true. This makes many parents try to find the effective parenting method for their children. You must have searched, read books, gone online, or joined supporting group to find the effective ways to educate and parent your child. First, you have to define what the meaning of effective is. It is the method that works well based on your child condition and situation.
Unfortunately, each child is different. They have different characters and even the twins are different. This can make you confuse in applying the best and most effective method. Remember, there is no reason for you to fail in parenting your child. Both of you and your child have to be success. You cannot apply what the previous generations did in parenting the children since the situation is much more different. Fortunately, the children are still more or less the same as they have always been. So, there will be no serious problem in choosing the proper parenting methods. It is you as the parents who have to improve your parenting skills gradually.
If a method is successfully applied in certain children, you perhaps think that it may be success in your child also. Well, it is not relatively true because there are some factors that influence the success. Look at how consistence you are applying the method. If you need to be strict in certain cases, you have to be strict. Once you forgive her for doing the same mistake, your child will not think that you are serious. Consistency is important factor in the success of your parenting. Also, you have to be discipline. Yes, if you want your child to be discipline, you are the first person who needs to be more discipline. It can be concluded that effective parenting method is exist and the success depends on you.